When a friend, spouse, loved one, co-worker, or church member betrays us whether it’s a lie they told, infidelity, sharing something confidential, or whatever it may be, the pain runs deep. We often ask the whys, whats, where, and hows, but no matter their explanation, it never seems to satisfy the hurt in our heart.
We have our ups and downs, and at times we might even cry ourselves to sleep. Peace and joy elude us, and our days seem dim. The enemy of our mind takes advantage of the situation and taunts us. He makes us feel like it was our fault, or we deserve the pain that has been inflicted on us by the choices someone else made.
We play the scenario out over and over in our minds. It seems that we can’t let it go. So we unconsciously give a foothold to the devil. Then he steps in and uses our pain to create a wedge in our relationship. And if we’re not careful and hold on to the betrayal too long, it takes hold of us. We begin to walk in unforgiveness, and then bitterness creeps into our hearts. (Ephesians 4:26-27)
There is no doubt. The hurt experienced is real. And as hard as it is to let go and forgive, with Jesus’ help, it’s possible. How? Lay it all down at the feet of Jesus. Allow Him to be your balm to soothe every ache in your heart and mind. Trust Him to make right what is wrong.
Choose to forgive as God forgives us. Understand that forgiveness is for you. It doesn’t support the person’s actions but rather sets you free from living in the past. It allows you to live freely in Jesus and focus on all the blessings He has for you. (Ephesians 4:31-32)
Prayer: Lord, thank You for Your faithfulness and love. Show me anything in my heart that I have against anyone and help me to forgive completely. Heal every pain and hurt in my heart. In Jesus’ name, amen.
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